Saturday, April 30, 2011

Book Part I

Curtains
By Tom Jokinen
Précis
Their are black holes, gaps found within the process of dealing with a death. A curtain separates the world from the actually process only exposing them for the beginning and the end.

Quotes
"In my head it sounds like a fairy tale: the dead comes from a magical place called the silver doors, from which they are whisked into boxes or made to drink potions that turn them from yellow to greens, then they are painted pink and purple and powered,and some are baked me an oven where they are turned into flour by special death fairies. " P. 19

"We devised taboos to deal with with the former, to take away pits power, and ritual to weaken the chaotic impact of the latter." P.22

"A well-prepared body , as a means to repairing the mental health of the survivors." P.26

"With her size she will be done and sweepable in ninity mintues." P. 46

the behind the scenes of a death is filled with special ways to keept it secret. equppied with vents, air fresheners

Tom Jokinen wrote this book beginning with his personal experience. He writes about the face to face experiences he has had with death, quite literally. From escorting the body from place to place, through the step of decorating. He describes the plain look of caring for a death, a process filled with black holes, and gaps of nothingness and no information. People seem to accept not knowing each step between. The process is purposely kept a secret for the sole reason that people dont want to know. Jokinen was there for the cremation of bodies at one point in this expedition. A process that people are well of without ever having any exposure. The visual smoke produced by the cremation of a body would be to real for people to handle as described in the book. And as a result special vents are installed to contain these fumes away from viewers. People know what is going on, but seeing makes believing so much more real. I know what the process means, however if i were to see smoke rising out of a funeral home I would be comfortable. Why is this the feeling most of us get? we know its happening. Jokinen continues his exploration into death in the decorating stage. Bodies are transported and awaited to be "dressed". Jokinen, unlike others, are unsettled by the raw look of death when faced with the body. With many steps of ripping, manipulating, and coloring the body is beautified for its viewers. Like a "cinema screening" bodies are being decorated and viewed all day long.

Saturday, April 23, 2011

Family perpectives

"Death is a debt to natures due. As I have paid it so must you." is what my grandpa requested to have engraved on his tomb stone. He told me that he did not care what happened to his body. "Dead is dead" seems to his ideology, that the body no longer "belongs" to him, has no feeling and therefore does not matter. Which I personally have trouble understanding. And so I asked him if he would be accepting of donating his body or organs to science. A mutilating however helpful method for research. The conversation took a turn when I asked, because he answered hyorcrictically that he did not want that. So as a clarification he ended with the thought that he did care to a certain extent hat happened to his body.

My grandma (Phy) began informing me about the traditions that are done within the jewish religion, "The body is bathed and wrapped in a white shroud, and placed in a plain closed pine casket. Within 24 hours after death, the funeral and burial usually take place. There is never any viewing of the deceased, and no Wake. " Phy went on to describe the mourning period after the funeral known as the "sitting Shiva." This period last about 7 days in which family and friends gather together. During this mourning period " all of the mirrors in the house are covered, the immediate family wears small black ribbons on their chest with a tear in the ribbon." The ribbon she said symbolizes the loss of their loved one. My grandma described to me the base of Jewish tradition when handling the dead, However these traditions have been modified. From her personal experience (remembering one from a couple weeks ago) a dear friend died of old age. He was cremated the next day. A memorial service was held for him with no casket or urn, just friends and family eulogizing him. The church was described as decorative dress up with flowers and beautiful music my grandma thought "that this was the kind of service I would like...except not in a Catholic church! There was something very peaceful and comforting just sitting there, remembering our dear friend, and sharing laughter and tears with almost 1000 people who loved him, too."

Funerals/ memorials are a way to remember the deceased. It allows the person's life to be celebrated and remembered. It is a helpful way for loved ones to gain emotional support. A Memorial or a funeral is a public display of acknowledgment of the persons life. Some are held with traditions and some not as much. I was intregged by the religious tradition addressed in this interview. Due to my lack of knowledge about it in the fist place. From this conversation I began to search for excerpts from the Torah. Ideas of the after life seem to be vaguely discussed. I asked my stepmom more about these ideas and she was able to explain to me that it is believed that after death the soul rejoins ancestors. Other excerpts from the Torah though suggest the finality of death: that All of us must die eventually. Our lives are like water spilled out on the ground, which cannot be gathered up again. (2 Samuel 14:14) what is the significance of being bathed and wrapped? the contrasting color Platte of death is strange to me. The body is described as being "wrapped in a white shroud" yet everyone is expected to dress in all black. Does this tradition imply purity with the white?

Friday, April 22, 2011

Peer Perpectives

My first interview did not actually go according to plan. My intrigited attitude came off to harsh and that is where I probably went wrong. Candidate number one was my cousin, a 15 years old girl from Connecticut. I drove head first into the discussion of 'after death" by asking how she wanted her body to be handled. In all honesty I am interested in what other people think. I am simply interested in other perspectives of people my age. However I did not approach my first interview candidate with much sensitive and thats where I went wrong. I could feel the tension Immediately after I had asked the question. I didn't say anything thinking maybe she would give me some sort of answer. Finally she said "Buried with my mom and dad after they die.... but I don't really want to think about that" it started and ended there.

My cousin was clearly uncomfortable with the topic I was trying to discuss. There is no doubt in my mind it would have gone better if I had a better script. Fortunately I will not make the same mistake. So the interview was as bad as nails on a chalk board. I know. However I chose to write it up because I think it does contain some valuable points. Number one: People are sensitive to the topic. Talking about this enviable unknown world is freaky. Just thinking about death is scary, let alone planning for it. Proceed with caution. Number two: People are fearful that death splits apart relationships. My cousin wants to be buried with her parents, from here I began to think about some people do plan for their death. They play accordingly to their dominant fears and emotions. Is this a coping mechanism? does it help? What is the process of planning your own funeral?


Interviews number three was conducted with my sister. Her name is Hadley and she is a fairly smart 16 year old. She is pretty used to participating in these interviews for me so I can usually expect a honest insightful response. Personally I got the most out of this interview. And that is because it was more of a discussion than an interview. there was no tension, boundaries or limitations talking to Hadley. Through that I was able to hear what she thinks as well as evaluate and change what I thought. Hadley said, " I want some sort of service for friends and family. A service where they could come and remember me the good and the bad. You know just remember me for me." She talked about it in a way that seemed "light", almost beautiful and happy. To me it seemed like she wanted more of celebration of the life she had as appose to a mourning session.
"I want to be cremated. I want my ashes spread to beautiful places around the world. My most favorite places I have been and places I want to go." Hadley finished in her squeaky voice. Her optimistic attitude isn't found in alot of people. As happy as it all sounds it doesn't sound very realistic. For one thing a celebration at that stage sounds not only hard to do but also a little cruel. Dead people are usually on a high level of honor. Celebrating after a loved ones death seems disrespectful in a sense. Secondly, as scenic as the spreading of the ashes sounds it sounds like more of a fairly tale. Is it illegal to spread people ashes in certain places?

I interviewed a friend I have had since elementary school. Robert love studying philosophy, particularly works from Aristotle and Peter Abelard. Despite these interests Robert is an atheist. When we die he believes thats it. no god. no recencaration. So I asked him what he would want for his body left behind. I was expecting to hear an answer that included some type of memorial. I was surprised to get the exact opposite, "Dead is dead, it doesn't really matter to me." I guess my thinking was that if a person believes there is only one life, one body, then why not cherish that one you have?

Robert fathers passed away when he was only 4 years old. Being so young he does not remember much of it. I hinted to the story of his death. He told me it was a car accident. Roberts mother originally wanted an open casket and then a burial in their home town. However considering the circumstances cremation was more suiting. So he was cremated and from there set in a yearn. The plan was to still have a burial spot, however after the difficulty getting one in their home town, Roberts mother just decided to display it the yearn.

There are wide range of ideologies out there. Ones revolving around religion, personal morals. Along with all these methods there is little proof as to which one is better than the others. I dont necessarily agree with some of the methods that my candidates expressed, but that might have something to do with the fact i do not completely understand it.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Care of the Death thoughts

It is a weird feeling seeing your name on a tombstone. I stood next to my dad starring at the stone in the ground that read 'HASELMANN'. Shielding both the rain and the faces of the people surrounding me with my umbrella. The rain painted a particularly gloomy scene. This was the only time I have ever been to a funeral. I was 7 and it was honoring my great grandpa, at least that’s how my older cousin described it to me. This was a pretty vivid memory for me. It was a moment that I just wanted to be over, mostly as a result of boredom. However I don’t remember being sad. Which was probably because I was too little to comprehend the situation. There were about 20 people surrounding my grandpa. Some of whom I knew as family and others I haven't had the slightest clue that they were. But everyone was connected through my great grandpa and through our classic black style choices. And so I’m curious why people wear black? A common question, that seemingly no one tries to answer. Connotations with black are depressing, morbid, dark, mysterious, and elegant. In a sense black can almost be nothingness, the total absence of color. But do these connotation come from wearing the color at funerals? The black style has evolved into a sort of tradition in our culture. Do other cultures associate death with a certain wardrobe, a color?

In the process of thinking about death I sparked the idea of organ donors. Some people chose to donate their organs/ body for researches after they die. I know my parents take part in it by the little heart on their divers license. How does it all work though? then I started to think about my godfather. He works 3 times a week demonstrating operations to doctors on cadaver heads. Logically this is a helpful/ useful way to practice before practicing on a live person. But where do those bodies come from? Perhaps they are bodies of people who have never been claimed. Are they bodies of people who have donated parts to science? i cant imagine having a job like that. One where you cant under any circumstances be afraid of the parts.

When a body is not claimed what happens to it?

If hell is associated with fire. Why are people so accepting of being cremated?

that is just one method, but what are the alternatives?

How are bodies preserved now/ throughout history?

Why are the dead so frightening?

How are bodies preserved and where?

Why do we wear black to mourn over a death?


Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Comments

Sarah,

I agree that giving birth is not a easy process for a women. Pregnant women in jail are not given close to what is required for a safe and successful birth.

The stories you chose to incorporate are gruesome and almost hard to believe. Consider it cliche but people are people. it is inhumane to treat a person, in prison or not with such incivility. the stories you shared both throughout your paper and in your elevator speech were a good addition to further proving your point. it grasped the persons (me) attention, because it seemed so unreal.
I appreciate your research about such an unpublicized and overlooked topic.
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Bryanna,
The study you conduction seems to suggest that the reason most women give birth in hospitals is because they do not have an knowledge concerning the alternatives.
midwifes are a same opinion in giving birth. Unlike hospital they can create a more 'homie' and more comfortable atmosphere for the mother. I really liked how you wrote your piece on such a personal level. The interviews and stories provided firsthand evidence.

Something to think about for future works would be to incorporate facts from other creditable sources. In addition, it might be interesting to address the pros and cons of what the interviewed women had talked about. or maybe inform these women about midwifes and record if they experience any change in ideology.

Very good topic and idea. i enjoyed reading it. :)
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Devin,
GREAT PROJECT but you have enough comments telling you that.
the idea of you piece reminded me of another alternative related to the womens umbilical cord. it was called Lotus birth. sounds weird. it is describes as the practice of leaving the umbilical cord attached to both the baby and the placenta following the birth. the process allows the cord to detach from the baby naturally. I read this on a couple of websites and just wondered if you have heard or seen anything about it to?
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Amanda,
Often times teens who are pregnant do not seek proper care. Potentially a result of being in denial or the lack of state programs provided for these women.

I enjoyed reading your piece. A topic that us very relevant to us and our lives. I appreciate you taking such a simple topic and researching it in more depth. A valuable aspect of your piece were the facts you used to support you claims. "The most recent recording of the teen pregnancy rate has shown a 3% increase which translates to: out of 1000 pregnancies 72 of them are young women (2006). Most teen pregnancies are unexpected and unwanted which has induced a 50% rise in abortion rates."
As some constructive criticism. something that may help in the future is the structure of your paper. try separating into more defined arguments.

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ARDEN,
You did a good job of making facts really clear, and pointing out false myths. That was a good way to start, well done. Cute tittles it made it more organized and nicer to read! It really seems like you know ALOT about what you are talking about, i am certain you haven't had a baby, but by the all the information, it seems like you could have! :)- good research. You had great detail and really explained all your ideas. Pregnant women should read this and i am sure it will really inform them. Job well done Arden!!!

Hadley ("Less intelligent")

Thank you for your comment! I appreciate both the compliments and the humor. I am glad you found it well organized, easy to follow. No I have not had a baby, but maybe someday. and hopefully then I will be more prepared with ideas and alternatives about birth. It just seems as though most pregnant women are unaware and un educated about the many opinions of birth. About 2/3 of women give birth in hospitals today, because of the ideology that it is the "bester choice" the safe one. but Why? The media does a great job at demonstrating a certain method of birth. Movies and celebrities themselves advertise hospitals. Rarely does one ever see other alternatives. This produces thinking, rumors, myths that majority of people follow the trend.

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ARDEN,
Excellent information on the blog. very interesting what was explained here.

Lilly Abbott
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Wednesday, April 6, 2011

For a contemporary woman to experience pain when giving birth has no value. False.  Epidural injections used in labor and delivery are necessary, safe, and have no side effects. Also false. Exercise is dangerous during pregnancy. Again false. There are many common misconceptions in existence today regarding the process of pregnancy and birth. Although we have come a very long way in the physiological understanding of both pregnancy and childbirth, there are still many lingering myths and common misconceptions about them in our society.  Most of the common false impressions are generated in the media through movies and television. Very rarely do people even question how pregnancy and birth are dealt with in our country.  However,  when examined, the dominant social and medical practices involving these processes reveal them to be fraught with myths and unnecessary interventions.

 

RED LIGHT,  GREEN LIGHT, 1, 2, 3- GO

After watching all the movies and dramas on television, it is hard to blame those who believe the common myth that labor starts with the water breaking.  In actuality, as stated in an article this year in the Everyday Health: Pregnancy and Parenting network, after a woman’s waters break “labor may not start for another 12 to 24 hours.” You won't run out of amniotic fluid in the meantime — your body continues to produce it right up until delivery. Media representations also show the birth itself as happening very quickly. It is these visual representations that generate people’s ideas about the process of birth. Unfortunately, most of the time these representations are not the reality. For example, a woman will be portrayed as rapidly proceeding from a state of total wellness to her water breaking to urgently racing to the hospital, as if the baby is going to explode out of her at any moment. This misconception can lead to undue stress. Fortunately and more accurately, this is not the process of birth. The birth process proceeds in stages with signposts along the way to delivery. 

The first signs indicating the body is ready to give birth are contractions. Labor contractions are the periodic tightening and relaxing of the uterine muscle, the largest muscle in a woman's body.  Contractions are mostly described as a cramping or tightening sensation that starts in the back and moves around to the front in a wave-like manner. Others, like Jamie, a 23 year old first time mother, say the contractions feel “like pressure in the back.” In the childbirth process, the work of labor is done through a series of contractions. These contractions cause the upper part of the uterus to tighten and thicken while the cervix and lower portion of the uterus stretch and relax, helping the baby pass from inside the uterus and into the birth canal for delivery. This process takes many hours, especially the first time a woman delivers. It’s a common misapprehension to believe in the media’s version of a speedy birth.

HUGS, NOT DRUGS

HUGS, NOT DRUGS

It is during these fairly long stages of labor that women are subject to being given a variety of drugs. Depending on the choice of a hospital or home birth, the use of drugs differs. In a home birth women are not provided with forms of medications. On the other hand, they are used very commonly in hospitals. A common myth proposes that drugs, like in the epidurals used in labor and delivery, are necessary and completely safe. Perhaps this is wishful thinking when the woman is in pain or it is an unquestioning belief that the doctor will do no harm. This myth is, however, easily proven false as documented in various studies. The article labor and delivery cites several side effects and risks of the epidural: infection, dural puncture, and bleeding and nerve damage

Another problem from the use of drugs was described in the documentary,  “The Business of Being Born”. Hospitals were shown giving women epidurals and/or Pitocin mainly out of convenience. If labor is taking too long, the doctor will provide Pitocin, speeding up the labor with more painful shorter contractions. Due to the increase in pain and the faster contractions, the women will more likely receive an epidural to kill the pain, which in turn slows down the labor. The two counter-act each other, the drugs balancing each other out. The woman receives all this treatment and, shockingly, the unborn baby is now under stress. So, as a solution to the stress of the baby, the doctor then performs an emergency C-section. Stated in a another study by Ms. Rooks, a noted epidemiologist and researcher on the subjects of midwifery and childbirth and author of Midwifery and Childbirth in America,  “In many hospitals, epidural analgesia is routine and is provided to more than 90 percent of all women who are in labor.”

A CRY FOR HELP?

Myth: 21st century women should not have to endure the pain of labor because it has no value. This is a common belief held by many people today. Once again it is a provable misconception. The fact of the matter is that pain during labor is a natural function of our bodies; in other words, the pain serves to provide natural benefits. For one thing the normal pain of labor serves physiological functions. It alerts the pregnant woman that labor has begun and is a sign she should prepare for it. The pain is designed to trigger a hormonal response in the women’s body of protective, maternal behavior, as well as help her work with the labor pains to help position the baby.  Pain from the contractions that stretch the women’s muscles and tissue releases endorphins,which help both the mother and the baby cope with labor and feel better. According to a study in Anesthesiology ,1983, by TK Abboud, mothers who have epidurals no longer produce endorphins. It is not possible to artificially get rid of or numb the pain without also diminishing the forms of maternal satisfaction. (Science Clarified)

So why do women giving birth insist on making so much noise? A couple of male perspectives hypothesize it is because they want attention. While that might be the case, there is another reason. A few theories suggest it is simply because of the pain. While both of these are somewhat true it turns out that vocalization in labor can be a great tool for releasing tension and stress from your body. ("Labor and Delivery.")This is similar to how a personal trainer advises you to count in the middle of exercise at the peak of the hardest point. People often overlook these benefits from making noise and even having pain in the first place. They just believe the myth or common perception that neither serves any useful purpose. No one truly seems to understand, yet no one really ever stops to question it. So they follow suit and believe the myth that the pain and the noise have no true value.

EASY ACCESS

In 1955, it was recorded that less than 1% of births took place at home. The number of births in hospitals today still stands greater than that of home births. A major misconception is that hospitals are the safer place to give birth. Although this is a myth, the evidence to prove it is a whole other issue and deserves a properly designed paper. Another myth for discussion in this paper, however, is that the hospital environment is more beneficial for the mother than delivering at home. Often times people are oblivious to the simple difference between he two settings. Birthing at home, the women is in her own environment; she is free to move around. The women at home can give birth in whatever position she wants (more or less). On the other hand, births in hospitals position women on the table with their legs spread. Why? It is explained by most doctors that this position is ideal when giving birth for the following reason: Your chin down and use a rounded back to help your abdominal muscles assist your uterus in pushing your baby.” In other words, its best for the women. Logically this argument is flawed. It makes sense for a woman to give birth in a position where gravity is helping. Squatting is a position not practiced in hospital but a position that helps the women during birth.  This opens the pelvic outlet to its maximum width, as well as using the advantage of gravity. Sitting is another helpful position, also using gravity; it is also a good resting position. Many people often do not think about birthing in the position of Lying on Your Side. Nevertheless, this is also a very good resting position and may be helpful in avoiding an episiotomy.  While these positions make sense for women, the legs spread apart is what makes sense for the doctor. Directly at eye level, the doctors have both a front row view and comfortable, easy access for themselves. (Cassidy)

WHAT TO DO?

While it seems to go against common belief and practice to give birth naturally nowadays, it is still a possible method. Women can give birth today without all of the drugs and participation in standard medical practices. Mankind, after all, exists right now in spite of thousands of years without our modern technology and medical knowledge.  It is hard to believe that births were successful in those times, but they mostly were. Now with the knowledge of standard antiseptic practices and physiology,  as well as the proximity of hospitals if needed,  there can be an even safer parallel with those women who have natural/ home births today.

There are many common misconceptions regarding the process of pregnancy and birth. People are often oblivious to the reality surrounding labor and delivery and the methods and practices that are truly the most beneficial for both mother and baby. The solution is to simply educate people and make the changes needed ourselves. In spite of modern medical advances, we still have a long way to go in providing optimum care for mothers and babies from conception through childbirth.

 Cassidy, Tina. Birth:The surprising history of how we are born. New York: Grove Press, 2006. Print.

"Labor and Delivery." Sutter Health. N.p., 2008. Web. 4 Apr 2011.